What is an orgy? 8 tips to practice it

Sexual relations are an important part of life as a couple, and studies affirm that they influence the well-being of the couple. But some people, those with a conservative mindset, don't understand that you can enjoy sex with people you're not in a romantic relationship with.

However, in recent decades, beliefs about sex have become increasingly liberal.. Is it right or wrong to have this mentality? Each one can make his life what he wants, and in this article we are not going to comment on anyone's sexual tastes.

In the following lines we delve into and talk about a somewhat controversial subject of sexual content and, for many, even prohibitive: orgies.

• Related article: “42 spicy questions to explore your sexy side”

What is an orgy?

Surely in the minds of some readers different prejudices have appeared when reading the title of this article. And it is not strange, because we live in a society that imposes a series of behaviors, also in the sexual sphere, and orgies are not exactly something that is socially accepted. Some people understand that an orgy is prohibitive, as they stick to a very rigid script and roles when it comes to sexuality and sex.

An orgy is a kind of "sexual party", in which more than three individuals participate who have free sexual relations; that is to say, that there is an exchange of sexual partners (not necessarily a loving partner). The orgy is a type of group sex (heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual or lesbian) in which, generally, there are no restrictions. Unless there are explicit rules in this regard (for example, that some practitioner does not want to practice anal sex).

Difference between orgy and threesome

Orgy and threesome are two terms that can be confused and despite being similar they are not the same. A threesome is a sexual act involving three individuals, either two women and one man, two men and one woman, or three people of the same sex.

An orgy takes place when there are more than three participants in the sexual act and, in addition, there is an exchange of participants during the sexual evening. On the other hand, an orgy is not the same as group sex, as this can include other forms of sex such as dogging, a practice in which exhibitionists and voyeurs participate.

• If you want to know more about dogging, you can read our article “Dogging or “Cancaneo”: the new sexual practice of exhibitionists and voyeurs”

Tips for carrying out orgies

Although there are individuals who think that it is morally wrong to have orgies, others decide to enjoy them. It is important that, when carrying out these types of practices, extreme precautions are taken and they are carried out safely.

Below you can find some tips to experience an orgy safely and thus enjoy a successful sex party.

1. Decide the rules before you start

If you want to enjoy a nice experience, explicit and explain the guidelines and limits of the orgy (or those imposed by some members). The rules may vary depending on the actors, but they must be clarified before starting so that there are no misunderstandings.

2. Consider the effects of relationships

It may happen that the members of a couple decide to try new things and venture into threesomes or orgies, but sometimes the idea you have is not the same as reality. It may happen that, for example, the self-esteem of any member resents if he is not prepared for this experience, so it is necessary to consider the consequences of this type of action.

3. use protection

Sex with strangers increases the risk of infections or sexually transmitted diseasesTherefore, whenever an orgy is practiced, it must be done safely and take precautions. For example, using condoms.

4. Choose your guests well

Not everyone is up for orgies, and sometimes it's hard to do it with close friends. However, there are websites on the internet designed to meet people for this type of practice and liberal venues that you can attend to meet people with this interest.

5. Hygiene of people and place

In addition to using protection, it is important to take care of the personal hygiene of the participants and also the hygiene of the place. It is recommended that the people who participate in the orgy have showered in a period of time not too distant from the moment in which the sexual relationship takes place.

6. setting

The place to practice the orgy must be intimate and all participants must feel comfortable in it. It is not necessary that the place be luxurious, but it is possible to set it to exalt the senses. A dim light, ambient music or scented candles can allow a greater sexual experience. It is important that it be a spacious place and where the participants can carry out their sexual fantasies.

7. organization of the orgy

If you are the one organizing the orgy, make sure everything is well organized.. An orgy not only includes sex, but it is a situation in which there can be conversations and it is possible to have a relaxed and party time. Make sure that everything is correct, that there is no lack of food, drink and, of course, condoms.

8. use games

A good way to start the orgy is to use sex games. For example, Twister, Strip Poker or Bodypainting. Sex games allow you to have an entertaining and fun time.

• In our article “15 ideal sexual games to recover the passion of a couple” we give you some ideas.

benefits of sex

Practicing sex is one of the healthiest activities that people can do, and it is extremely pleasurable. When we have sex, as we explained in our article “What happens in our body and mind when we have sex?”, our brain is flooded with substances called endorphins, which make us feel good.

• Sex affects our day to day in a positive way. If you want to know what the benefits of having sex are, we invite you to read our article “The 13 benefits of having sex, according to science”