The importance of consistency when accompanying the client

Let's start from the definition of the term "coherence": it is all fact carried out in the approach of thinking, feeling and acting according to its principles and values. How many of the therapists, psychologists, coach and other specialties act according to their personal coherence?

It is a complex issue to solve; However, in many of the situations in which help is sought from a professional, some training, empathy and other types of advice are required. characteristics to be able to resolve the alteration that leads the person to consultation, which in some cases also affects the professional and this you have not even managed to solve it properly in your life.

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Why Consistency Is Key When Serving Customers

Distinguishing these types of patterns is not an easy thing, but as people who act on behalf of others, we should do a constant self-assessment of the problem posed by the client and ask ourselves if this vocation is truly in service to the other or, on the contrary, simple salary remuneration.

The true meaning of offering coaching services is not based solely on desperation to search for a degree or profession to get us out of our discomforts, to please our family members, or the typical "this vocation is usually easy", but to integrate the true passion that lies within ourselves, in our essence and in the true purpose of being guides in the processes of each person.

The purpose is what moves us to fulfill our functions without hurting or aggravating the client's problem. Can we ever imagine if in some cases in which what we recommend is not appropriate for our consultant, which manages to harm the person or intensify a type of symptom that did not require such treatment?

Knowing how to say "no" and delegate to another professional what in our perception we cannot carry out, is also part of our good practice. The key is to be aware that we may not be able to serve everyone who comes to us in the way that they really need.

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Knowing our limits

Today, both values ​​and principles are of discontinued use in different areas of our society, where an increase in its importance is currently reflected in fields such as personal development or spiritual... Why is this happening?

How are processes in which knowledge is handled with approaches to self-realization, introspection and paths of truth, allow us to teach and implement again what we have lost at some point through certain limiting beliefs.

Therefore, starting from the premise of coherence, if we start by being the 1% or more that exemplifies through our actions in all areas of the life these types of concepts, we can make a certain difference when both user and professional understand the importance it has in our collective healing the use of these types of terms and how significant they are, not only for our individual advancement, but also in our community.

In the field of psychological support or through coaching and everything that encompasses not only you have to give the tools, advice, treatment, approach and everything that concerns to carry out the due solution, but also must act in the most appropriate way possible, starting from about what we are also human beings with wounds to heal, and what if these are still open... With what criteria do we recommend to another being about what we ourselves have not been able to solve?

The importance of honesty, a value that today may seem lost, but that is a fundamental piece for each person to have the possibility to grow, heal and establish the path that best leads to self-realization personal.