The 6 signs that a man passes on you (and he is ignoring you)

You've been dating a guy for a while but you're still not quite sure what his intentions are. Despite what your intuition tells you, you need something to tell you what position he is in, but you don't really know what are the signs that a man passes from you.

It is normal that many times it is difficult for us to accept that a boy has passed from you and has lost interest, especially if we love it and unlike him, our interest is through the roof. Look at these signs and if he is definitely not interesting, let it go and pay attention to you. Because woman, you are worth a lot and you don't need to try to get anyone's attention.

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6 signs that a man passes on you and is not interested

As much as it hurts in the heart but especially in our ego, it is better to realize the reality of the relationship and that the blow does not take us by surprise, nor do we continue to invest time and energy in something that is not going to pay off fruits.

If the man you are dating passes you by, you better know it; and if you are intuiting it, you should listen to yourself, so pay attention to these 6 signs that he has no interest in you.

1. You are the one with the initiative

When they started dating, this guy constantly wrote to you, he made up new plans to be able to see you and He invited you out, but lately it's you who must take the initiative, propose that they meet and look for it. If this is so, it is a very clear indication that this guy is no longer interested And the best thing is that you leave it and put your effort elsewhere, because it is unlikely that it will change its mind.

2. He cancels and postpones plans together

In line with his lack of initiative, another thing that may be happening is that every time they have an appointment scheduled he cancels it or changes it for another time. As much as he hurts you, if this is happening it means that you stopped being his priority and he is not interested in spending time together.

You may try even harder to stay with him or find a way to get his attention again, but the only thing this is going to lead to is hurting yourself and your self-esteem. If he is no longer interested then you have to close the cycle and move on, someone else will come and in any case, you have you to be happy.

3. Doesn't pay attention to your things

Another of the signs that a man passes on you is the lack of attention in you and your things. He does not remember the stories you tell him, your anecdotes, nor does he ask you how you are. What you need to ask yourself is why would you continue to give attention to someone who is not interested in seeing your light, so do not stop there and move on.

4. He communicates little with you

The days of endless conversations on WhatsApp until midnight or waking up with a message from him waiting for you on your mobile are long gone. On the contrary, you are the one looking for him, the one sending the messages in an attempt to keep his interest, but he reads them late and even ignores them, leaving the double blue check without responding.

Clearer sign that this may not exist and it is up to you to decide where you put and measure your value. That is, if you will be waiting for answers that will not arrive or if you make the decision to leave it there and accept that he is not the right man for you.

5. They only see at home

Something that happens very frequently and that, in many cases can be even worse, is that the boy is not interested in you but he is interested in having sex. What happens in these cases is that now they only stay at home for that and that's it. They have never dated again and in reality, the talk between the two is totally false, at least on his part.

You must take care of these types of toxic situations, because if it is not what you are looking for in it, you are in a vulnerable position that can hurt you, and the only one who can really take care of you and your heart is you herself.

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6. He does not look for you after you have stayed

The last of the signs that a man passes on you is that, after having a date he does not look for you. We're not even talking about him disappearing forever, but it's quite likely that the first few times he They saw each other he contacted you by messages or in some way the next day, maximum two days later.

But if this has stopped happening and time passes for this boy to look for you, surely your intuition and that discomfort you are having are clearly telling you that he is no longer interesting and you have to move away. You deserve to be in the places and with the people that can see your light and how wonderful you are; with someone by your side who feels lucky for your very presence and who makes you feel great.

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