Why do men love bad girls

Those girls who never answer calls and they leave you in "read" on WhatsApp. Those girls. Although we do things well, they are women who rarely pay attention to us: to them we seem almost invisible.

In the end, we make a mess and we do not stop thinking that we are the culprits of the situation: "Why doesn't she call me?", "I'm too little of a man for her", "I don't understand anything", and similar regrets.

Bad girls, guide to understand them

There are many women who believe (and they are right) that the female sex has been treated unfairly for centuries, and that even today girls have to deal with many Comparative prejudices and grievances towards men. It is a frustrating feeling to see that you have fewer opportunities in life because of something as arbitrary as being born a woman.

In the section on love relationships, women have also suffered a lot. They have been treated little less than like objects, used to procreate, violated and ignored. With all this cultural residue, it is not unusual that inequalities continue to exist and that some believe that they should act as a "complement" to their boyfriends or husbands. Totally wrong idea, but one that still exists even in the 21st century.

Obviously, more and more girls are shedding these stereotypes and decide to act with autonomy and freedom.

Women who assert themselves... maybe a little too much

Have you ever met a "bad girl"? They are those women who take their independence to the last consequences. Okay, it may sound a bit harsh to refer to them with a negative adjective ("bad"): after all, they are fully entitled to act in the way they think is most appropriate, right?

But, what is undeniable, is that gay boys (or girls) who pretend to have a romantic relationship with these bad girls they end up completely unhinged, bewildered and not knowing what is happening to their around.

Why do some men long for bad girls?

In another article by Psychology and Mind, called "Dark Triad: why women prefer tough guys", We already realized that there is something about the personality of" bad "men that especially attracts women.

But this can be a phenomenon that not only helps men to be more attractive and to captivate women. It can also be the other way around, there are also "Dark Triad" girls who are beginning to impose their rules.

The attraction to complicated relationships

Human beings tend to try impossible companies. We like to play the protagonists of the Odyssey and try to achieve absolutely heroic goals. It may be that there is something in that psychological background that drives us to have a predilection for those love relationships that are more complicated.

In fact, no one likes something that everyone can have effortlessly. We are like this: we like the exclusive, what has cost us sweat and tears to have. It is a bit pitiful that we have this taste for the exclusive, especially when it comes to material goods. After all, a utility car takes you to the same place as a spectacular sports car. But…

This works similarly when it comes to finding a partner. We become obsessed with those who make it difficult for us, that make us suffer and that give us one of lime and another of sand. We have this point of masochism, and we can't help it.

Good women and not so good women

Many women have found that being nice and accommodating to their boyfriends is bad business. All they get is to be ignored and manipulated by them. The "not so good" women have simply learned to play other cards..

These types of girls tend to be characterized by being more independent, autonomous in their love life, proactive and uncomplexed. They have a life beyond being tied to a man, they have varied hobbies and passions. If we look at it in a slightly critical way, we can also say that bad girls can be elusive and detached.

How do these kinds of girls act?

I would like to clarify something: I do not want to make any value judgments about "good" or "bad" girls, despite the labels being these. Anyone has every right to act as they please, and no one should judge another person.

Nor is it about promoting the habits and attitudes of "good" or "bad" girls. I simply want to describe some trends and reflect on them, or at least serve as a starting point for you, as a reader, to ask yourself some questions.

Romantic relationships are always difficult. It is possible that, if we stop to think about the rise of bad girls, we realize that, perhaps, we have been victims or executioners of this type of relationship on occasion.

Through a total of five keys, we can try to understand the psychology of difficult women and why we find them more attractive, in general. And, of course, we will learn why they hurt us so much.

In the end, women who meet these characteristics have incredible virtues: they love themselves, they are demanding with their interpersonal relationships and know that, in this life, the most important thing begins with taking care of yourself.

Law 1: Attraction is based on authenticity

They don't have to be women with super exciting lives for us to be crazy about them. They are, simply, girls who do not give much importance to the fact of having a boyfriend. They are natural, they are as they are and they will not adapt to you to like you. In any case, adapt yourself to them.

Law 2: Challenge

What challenges us is more valuable. When we feel like we have control over something or someone, we may lose interest. But when being with a person is a daily challenge, the attraction increases. Some girls know this and use it.

Law 3: They like each other a lot

Bad girls like each other, a lot. This attitude allows them to be perceived like this by others as well: as very valuable, self-confident and seductive. This is the basis of everything: women with this personality know how to attract dozens of men.

Law 4: They accept loneliness

The women we have described are also differentiated by one characteristic: they are not afraid to be alone. This differentiates them from "normal girls", who tend to believe that they must be with a man to be happy. They mean girls know that their life is more important and that their life should not be based on the company they have.

Law 5: They are enforced

We men know that there are some "friends" who can be available for a long time to meet us and satisfy our desires. There is nothing wrong with that. But bad women never agree to that. If you don't prioritize them, you have nothing to do. It is impossible for them to agree to see you if they notice that you are using them.

Some conclusions about these women

There are several guides and books that talk about these girls. Each person is different and bad girls are neither better nor worse, just different. They are so different that they can make many of us lose our minds over them.

Have you met any "bad girls" in your life? How was your experience? You can explain it to us in the comments section or on our social networks.