This is how couples are in which jealousy does not exist

Traditionally, both in Spain and in the rest of the Spanish-speaking countries, it has been assumed that being in a relationship means, among other things, experiencing jealousy when potential competitors or competitors are close to the loved one. It is as if, by definition, love consists of reserving the other person for oneself, actively and, when necessary, through aggressive attitudes.

In fact, jealousy is highly regarded by many, many people. They are perceived as a show of passion, something that makes it evident that we value the other person very much and that we would not bear to lose them. From this point of view, not experiencing jealousy in a relationship would be something of a sign that we do not deserve to have a boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband.

However, this is changing. They are more and more frequent couple relationships that claim to be free from jealousy.

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The characteristics of a relationship without jealousy

There are many elements that allow us to distinguish which couples are who choose to limit themselves to enjoying each other's company without distrust. In fact, something as simple as giving up brand jealousy a before and after in any courtship or marriage.

It is an attitude that is clearly manifested through different facets of life, given that, although it may not seem like romantic love as it is usually understood, it can lead to lead to states of paranoia that prevent truly enjoying that affective bond.

Below you can see what are the typical traits of couples in which there is no jealousy involved.

1. The control of the other is conspicuous by its absence

This is probably the main characteristic of this type of love relationship. In them, simply, trying to control the other person is not acceptable, organize the schedule or impose obligations related to the way in which he must interact with other people.

Instead of trying to control the other, it is assumed that the couple's relationship is based on symmetry and the absence of the power of imposition. It is true that there are a series of expectations and rules of coexistence, but that does not mean that tyrannical control or almost police surveillance should be exercised for fear of what could happen.

That is why these types of couples do not reproach each other for actions that, only if we get very pessimistic, could be an unclear indication of betrayal. Extraordinary accusations require extraordinary evidence.

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2. They quietly enjoy independence at leisure

These types of couples are clear that there are many hobbies, interests and hobbies that they don't have to be shared. In fact, the human being is complex enough that it is quite rare that two people are motivated to always do the same things at the same time... even if they are a couple.

3. A few moments of privacy are reserved

Everyone needs moments to be alone, even those who are more outgoing. The most jealous people, in these kinds of situations, they can come to believe ideas that border on deliriumFor example, assuming that every time your partner goes to a park or goes to read in the bedroom, he is actually going to interact with "competitors."

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3. They enjoy mutual trust

It is not the same to be in a relationship knowing that the glue that holds it together is the self-imposed norms, than to do it with the reason for being the affective bond itself, and nothing else.

Live authentically every moment makes relationships much more rewarding, and that shows right away. And that is why jealousy-free relationships are more likely to lead to moments of happiness.

4. They accumulate less stress

It is logical that relationships in which jealousy are notorious moments of paranoia abound.

This, of course, causes stress to accumulate, as there is always reason to worry; after all, moments when theoretically the other person could be betraying us they appear all the time. This is especially true since everyone uses the Internet and smartphones to interact with all kinds of people.

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5. They enjoy a greater social life

There is life beyond the couple. However, many relationships based on jealousy and gender stereotypes and roles are self-contained. Why? Because the value of exclusivity is so strong in him that he is far above the rest of his friends. It is understood that the normal thing, the situation that occurs by default, is to be together and isolated from the rest.

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