Flirting on social networks: the 7 tips to succeed
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More and more often, applications are released that give us the opportunity to meet interesting people and find the love of our life. Tinder is one of these applications, and it is probably the one that is having the most success. But how do we manage to generate interest and be able to have a date?
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Seduction 2.0: seven keys to go from social media chat to bed
Then we will give you seven tips so that your dating 2.0 become dating 1.0 and be able to move from the screen of the chat to the bar counter.
1. Be yourself
If our goal is to meet face to face, it is important that we behave in a way that is consistent with who we are. We must think that sooner or later we will have to see our contact in person. There is nothing more frustrating than discovering that the person hiding behind the screen was not who they claimed to be. In the next step we will tell you how to do it ...
2. Have a consistent profile
Let's choose suitable profile photos talk about us. Of course, we have to choose the photos in which we are most favored, but it is not enough. It is important that the photographs speak about us, our work and our hobbies. We must choose images in which we appear enjoying our lives. For example, if we like to ski, we will choose a photo in which we go skiing. If we work as a waiter in a bar, we will select a photo in which we appear preparing a drink... remember that photos are a great source of information and, in addition, can be used to generate conversations
Once we have selected the photo, it would be advisable that, if the application allows it, we will fill in the profile counting about us and what we want to do with our life. We will not leave it blank. We will synthesize, in a couple of lines, what we are and what we expect from life. That will help the other person to get an idea of what we are like and so she can decide if she wants to give us a chance.
3. The entry phrase
You already have a suitable profile and are willing to talk. What are you saying? Before you start talking, we recommend that you look at his profile. There we will have a very important source of information with which to start chatting. You don't have to impress anyone; we will simply care about the other person. Little by little, we will take practice and it will be easier for us to generate a conversation from nothing. We will start with questions that need to be answered broadly.
We will not focus on "yes" or "no" questions. We are not doing a survey, we are wanting to meet a person of flesh and bones.
4. Do not overwhelm
Let's not become annoying. Surely our interlocutor has a life to attend to. Let's give a limited time to our sessions chat and let's enjoy real life. That will help the other person ask about us. For the other person, we have to be a pleasant and appetizing moment. Also, it is important that we save things for the appointment. In this way we will generate expectations and awaken their curiosity.
5. Create intimacy and trust
It is important that, as we chat, we generate complicity with jokes that only we and our interlocutor can understand. The other person must detect that you have something special. She should feel that you are a respectful person worthy of her trust and we should let her know that we expect the same.
6. Have a reason
If our goal is to meet the other person, we have to have a excuse, even if this is only that we are curious to know it. Things have a reason. Communicating it properly will make it more difficult to obtain a not for answer.
It is advisable that we have some plan in mind; something simple with which to hang out together. Let's try to meet in a crowded place where there are people. Let us remember that the other person does not know us and does not yet know how we really are. You may have doubts about our person. We must offer the possibility of verifying that we are as we have shown ourselves.
7. Do not insist
We are not an obligation. Our interlocutor has to feel that he wants to know us voluntarily. If he tells us that he can't stay, let's not go after him; Let's give it a break One way not to get obsessed is that we have more than one person to hang out with. This way, your refusal will not affect us so much.
In summary: we have to be patient and behave as we are. We have to understand that behind the screen, there is a real person with feelings and an exciting life that we must discover.
- If what you want is to learn all the keys to seduce via WhatsApp, don't stop reading our article "Flirting on WhatsApp: 10 keys to chat effectively".
