30 endearing ways to show love to your partner

Loving someone and having that person love you is, without a doubt, incredible. But relationships have to be worked on every day, otherwise, what started as a beautiful romance can end in heartbreak.

It may also happen that, over time, the relationship has cooled, and your partner may notice that you are no longer as attentive to him or her as before. Although this is normal, we must continue to show affection to our lover, since she has chosen us as her partner for the rest of her life.

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Ways to show love to your boyfriend/girlfriend

If you want to show your crush that you think he is special to you and that you really think he is everything in your life, below you can find a list of ways to show him love.

1. First of all... be his friend

Lasting relationships are those in which the members of the couple share hobbies, support each other and feel like friends. Don't forget to have fun with her, whether in everyday life or in sexual activity..

2. Make your partner a priority

This doesn't mean you shouldn't go to work because your partner wants to spend time with you.. It's about taking into account that it is there and doing things together, living unforgettable moments. Nobody likes to be with someone who is at work all day and forgets that they have a partner or a family.

3. Negotiate instead of arguing

It is clear that you are not always going to agree, but in a relationship it is about finding balance. Sometimes your partner wins and other times you win. The key is to negotiate.

4. Leave him an “I love you” note before you leave the house.

It's 8 in the morning and you have to go to work. Your partner is still getting ready, so take the opportunity to leave him a love note right next to his keys. I'm sure the day is going to start super happy.

5. Fly to Paris 

There is no better way than to spend a few days with your lover in the city of love. Enjoy Paris and its charming cafes, champagne, art and the Eiffel Tower with your partner. Take the opportunity to take a night walk along the Seine River and turn this trip into an unforgettable memory.

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6. Bring breakfast to her (even if it's not every day)

It's not about being your partner's slave. But it's Sunday morning and the week has been exhausting for him or her... why not have a detail? Bring him breakfast in bed and I'm sure he'll love you a little more after that..

7. Make him a “I love you” call without him expecting it

He is at work, since it is Monday morning. Give him a call to tell him how much you care. Imagine how he will feel if he receives your call and you say, “Honey! I'm just calling you to tell you how much I love you and how important you are to me. I hope you have a nice Monday.”

8. A day of picnic

Decide on any day, one that you both have time for, and go on a picnic with your partner.. Whether it's the beach or the mountains, the important thing is that you are together.

9. Send her flowers any day

Not all women are fond of receiving flowers, but this is a romantic detail. It doesn't have to be from Valentine's Day or on her birthday so you can give her a bouquet of flowers. Giving them to them on any given day can pleasantly surprise them.

10. Recognize their achievements

Whether in studies, at work or in housework, Recognition of your hard work is something you will greatly appreciate.. I'm sure there's no one he wants to impress more than you.

11. Communicate

Communicating is essential in any relationship, so communicate with your partner instead of just talking. It is necessary to avoid conflicts and also brings people closer together..

12. Actively listen

We all need to be listened to, but hearing is not the same as listening. Active listening is putting all your senses into the conversation.

• Learn the art of active listening in our article: “Active listening: the key to communicating with others”

13. Apologize when you are wrong

Your partner will appreciate it if you apologize when you're wrong.. We all make mistakes and conflicts are normal in couples. Showing love is being humble and caring about the other person.

14. Trust your partner

Trusting your partner is an act of love. This is done, for example, by not caring if he goes out with his friends. Jealousy turns the relationship toxic and ends love.

15. Don't compare him with others

Your partner is unique and that's why you love them. Don't compare him to anyone (for example, an ex-partner). If you still think about another person, you will hardly be able to give yourself fully.

16. Remind him that you are proud to have him

Your partner will be very happy that you remind him how special he is to you and how lucky you are to have him by your side.

17. Give him his space

Everyone needs their space for the relationship to work.. This point is closely linked to giving trust to the couple, and this is only possible when the relationship is not dependent.

18. hug him

There is nothing more powerful and transmitting as much as a hug. Hug him as much as you can, even more so after intimate relationships..

19. Kiss him

A hug is incredible, but if you also kiss him from the heart, the message is clear. So kiss, kiss, kiss and show love.

20. Practice tantric sex

If you want to truly connect with your partner, practice tantric sex. This experience will make you connect with all your senses. If you want to know more about this practice, in our article: “7 tantric sex exercises to achieve maximum pleasure” you will find a series of tips that can be very useful for you and your partner.

21. Always speak with respect

If it comes, it is true that you cannot agree on all opinions and that each one has their own vision of the world., you should always be respectful with your partner. It is always better to be assertive than to impose your own opinions.

22. Show interest in your friends

We all choose who our friends are, so show interest and be respectful of your partner's friends.. If you love him or her, understand that her friends are special to him or her.

23. Find something that amuses you

Find activities where you have fun together, because in the end it is these moments that fill you. Whether it's dancing salsa, going to the gym or visiting museums, the important thing is that you have a good time together.

24. Support him in achieving his goals

Support your partner in achieving their goals and motivate them to keep going.. For example, if he wants to lose weight, you can help him eat healthy by buying healthy foods.

25. Keep the flame of passion alive

If you have been together for a while, prevent the flame of passion from going out. Be original and think of things that will benefit both of you.

26. go on adventure

This time don't plan... explore a place neither of you have been. This could be going to spend a weekend or any afternoon at a local place.

27. Do something you really want

Surprise him or her by doing something you think your partner would want to do. before she asks.

28. Plan another honeymoon

If you have children and it seems that the relationship is a little monotonous lately, take your partner on a small honeymoon. This way you will relive what has united you and you will come back more united.

29. Share

Share your love, your fears, your responsibility. Make your partner your life. After all, you want it to be part of the rest of your life.

30. Understand your emotions

It's not always easy to put yourself in someone else's shoes, but make the effort to understand their feelings, even when you disagree with your partner.