What do men like? 15 tips to make them fall in love

Sometimes it seems that men and women speak different languages. And we not only speak, but we think differently. Sometimes in trying to understand each other we lose our lives. But do not be overwhelmed, if we can decipher what men like everything is easier.

Having a good relationship or falling in love with the man you like is possible. You don't have to stop being yourself or do extreme things to conquer it; you just have to know what men like. Here we share some of the things they want.

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What do men like? 15 tips to make you fall in love

Relationships do not have to become a power struggle. You have to find the balance where both parties feel good. To achieve this it is important to discover what it is that men like.

It may surprise you what they really want. And if you do not do the exercise of talking to your partner and expressing what you expect from him, and allow him to express the same to you. Surely you will discover that several of these tips to make him fall in love are things that he likes.

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1. That you show interest

Shows genuine interest in their hobbies, hobbies, or projects. They like sports, fantasy movies or literature, comics, and video games. If you also like the same thing that he does, it is easier, but if you do not make a real and genuine effort to be interested.

They like you to get involved and excited, but in a real way. If you don't like him at first, make an effort, ask him and investigate. Maybe you will end up liking his hobby! And it will be a way to show your love.

2. Self-confidence

Being confident is something that men find very attractive. Although it is normal that there are days that you feel down or not very safe, what is attractive to them is that most of the time you feel confident and happy with yourself.

A boy will like to see you full, confident, determined in what you like and what you don't like. Jealousy is reduced with this attitude, and they feel less overwhelmed with the subject. Enough of the insecurities! Men are drawn to seeing you walk confidently and confidently.

3. Zero dramas

Men don't like dramas. And let's face it, neither do we. There is emotional wear, misunderstandings and many times, nothing is solved. It is best to fix problems without the need for drama or aggressive situations.

If there is something that made you angry or you think it is important to talk about something, do it directly and minimize the drama. While it is important for him to know how you feel, there is no need to overdo it. Perhaps in the reverse situation you would not accept an excess of anger or drama on their part.

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4. Speak things directly

Men don't like having to guess what you want or feel. In fact, it is not just that they do not like it, it is that sometimes they are not good at perceiving or intuiting what it is we want. If you need or are bothered by something, it is best to say it directly to them bluntly.

One of the things that men do well is that women tell them what they expect of them directly. When asked: "Would you like me to bring you something?", "Has something I said or done bothered you?" Did I forget something important?

5. That you are daring and creative in privacy

Confident women who have no problem being daring like men. Specifically, for them it is very exciting and exciting that you surprise him in some way when having intimate relationships.

They don't have to be fancy stuff if you don't like them. It's about doing things that you feel comfortable with, but only if you want to surprise and please. It may be simply moving from bed to another place in the house or trying a different posture. He will appreciate it!

6. That his friends like you

Men like you to get along with their friends. Even if they seem rough or even wild or unpleasant to you, you have to understand that they are his friends and he likes to be with them.

If you simply don't like them, at least you have to make an effort to respect them and not make negative comments about them. This as long as you do not fall into excesses or irresponsibility on your part, you have to put up with disrespect. But if you object to him seeing and living with them, this can complicate your relationship.

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7. Food

They say that you fall in love with men because of the stomach, and it has a lot of truth. One of the things men like the most is eating. But that does not mean that you should cook every day if you don't like that or you are not good at it.

It's about making an effort and sometimes surprising him with something special. It can be prepared by you, but if cooking is not your thing there are also other options. You can invite him to his favorite restaurant, order food delivery, or research new places to go together.

8. Sexy women

What do men like? The sexy women! If you want to conquer a man, even if he is already your peer, it is a good idea that you present yourself in a sensual way. As we mentioned earlier, the most attractive thing for them is a confident woman, so, inhibitions out!

You can look for sexy clothes, rehearse some sensual dance, prepare a romantic and erotic atmosphere, or surprise him in privacy. Feeling sexy does not require more than confidence, security in yourself and not having reserve in showing yourself in front of him.

9. Respect for the relationship with his mother and family

It is very important that you understand and respect the relationship he has with his mother or family. In family relationships is where there should least be issues of jealousy. You must understand that each person has a special place, and that he has a close relationship with his mother is normal.

It may be that with his sisters, cousins, aunts or with other members of his family his relationship is also close and full of complicity. There are some wives or girlfriends who get upset about this; however, it is where there should be less jealousy and more understanding and support.

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10. Don't argue about insignificant things

Removing pointless arguments from the middle of the relationship is something that he will appreciate very much. Admittedly, he will keep squeezing the toothpaste from the top, will keep raising the toilet lid, or will not wash clothes separated by color.

As long as they are things that do not affect physical and mental integrity, and the line of respect is not crossed, it is better to ignore them a little. Reaching agreements and solutions that keep stress and mindless arguments away is vital, and doing so will greatly improve your relationship with him.

11. Intimate foreplay

Men also like to enjoy foreplay in private. It is said a lot that they only seek to finish and that's it, but this is not always true. Many of them like to prolong the foreplay, and more if you discover the things they like the most.

For this, it is important to open your mind to know what the other person likes. If you both agree, go ahead! I'm sure he is also very fond of foreplay in intimate relationships.

12. Buy her clothes

They don't like to buy clothes, and if you buy them you will appreciate it.. Most of them do not care to wear one shirt or another, and when someone facilitates their work they are infinitely grateful.

If you want to give him a birthday or Christmas gift, or just have a gift with him, buying him clothes will be successful. Something that is according to your style or taste, or it is even possible to ask what you would like. If you save him going to the store to buy, he will almost certainly like it!

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13. Natural women

Many men like women to go without makeup. Also go with your hair down or in a casual ponytail. Although he can obviously also be impressed when you dress for a special occasion, the truth is that women who go natural are also very attractive.

Don't be afraid to show him who you are. Going without makeup, wearing casual clothes and without trying so hard on your hairstyle shows confidence in yourself and is sure to captivate you. One of the things that men like the most is that you have no problem showing yourself natural, especially if they compliment you first thing in the morning.

14. Talk about his fantasies in private

Men have fantasies and desires, like us, and they also like to talk about them with their partner. Create an atmosphere of trust and openness for him to explain some of his fantasies in privacy. This is something that can create a bond of trust and new prospects.

Some fantasize about situations or people, and you shouldn't be alarmed. Let him talk about his fantasies and share yours, surely there is some way to find a common denominator.

15. Be the protector and be protected

Men like to feel strong and protective. Have no problem allowing it to be so. Being vulnerable at times and allowing him to protect you does not make you weak or dependent. He will like to protect you as much as he will like you to protect him and for you to be affectionate.

Hug him, kiss him (they love his neck and chest), caress him and pamper him is very timely. It can be done both when you have a problem or just without a reason, and that is that it is something that men like and it helps to maintain balance in the relationship.

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Bibliographic references

• Jensemann, J. (2018). What Men Want (Independent Publication).