Anti-attraction: 7 gestures and attitudes of people who do not seduce
Jul 15, 2021
In other articles of Psychology and Mind we have talked about how are the people who attract and captivate us. They are usually individuals who give off a certain magic and who make us want to spend a lot of time with them. That emotional connection awakening becomes almost irresistible, and the moments with them are moments that can become unforgettable.
But not everyone is attractive, and although we can all maximize our attractiveness and increase our chances of releasing that magnetism, there are people who carry out bad habits that reduce their chances of success.
As for attraction, not everything is physical
Many tend to associate attractiveness with physiqueBut, when it comes to being attractive, not everything is physical. Surely we all know cases of highly attractive people who could be with someone with a movie physique, but who, nevertheless, they are with someone who at first glance does not seem like a person with particularly striking physical features.
The needs of the person being seduced and possibly theseducer's special personality they can be reasons for one person to be attracted to another. Who is capable of stopping those individuals who destroy everything and also have great confidence in themselves? Obviously not everyone will like them, but probably most will.
Gestures and attitudes of people who do not seduce
Of course, there are also people who are at the other extreme. People who, as far as attraction is concerned, do everything or almost everything wrong And what habits or gestures do these people have? Well, they are usually people who:
1. They don't believe in themselves
One of the reasons why someone is anti-active is: "they don't feel like an attractive person." Simple as that! People who do not believe in themselves are almost impossible to get others to believe that they are attractive people.
These individuals are usually characterized by having such low self-confidence that it limits them when it comes to feeling comfortable with others people and to show their true personality, they do not know what your strengths are and they can look like someone who does not They are.
To seduce, the first thing you must be clear about is that you have to believe in yourself, otherwise it is easy for everything to go wrong.
Recommended article: "False self-confidence: the heavy mask of self-deception"
2. They are not proactive
While people who feel attractive often take the first step, unattractive individuals do the opposite. They have a great fear of being rejected, which makes it impossible for them to take action. You will rarely be an attractive person if you do not take rejection as normal and take the iron out of it. To be rejected, you must have tried.
3. They are shy
It is difficult for them to start a conversation because they are usually shy people and, as I said in the previous point, feel great shame and fear of rejection. On the contrary, attractive people are usually open people with great communication skills.
4. They are impatient
When you come across someone unattractive, it is very likely that he is so aware of you that he does not remember himself. They are those people who are aware of what you do all day, and they can call you several times a day, which in the long run causes you to end up fed up.
Attractive people, on the contrary, are so aware of their things that they end up creating certain expectations, and that makes you the one who wants to know about them.
5. They think negative
Being people with little self-confidence and with great shyness, they tend to think negatively. Think of an optimistic person. Sure you would love to spend all day with him, right? Because in addition to seeing problems as opportunities, they are there to encourage you in bad times. Anti-attractive people do the opposite. they spread their bad vibes.
6. They don't have an active social life
Have you noticed that attractive people love being in contact with others? They are often considered popular people because they connect easily with other individuals. In addition to having great social skills, they often have concerns and hobbies that allow them to surround themselves with other people so they usually have an active social life. On the contrary, people who are not especially attractive do not usually show this behavior and are usually reserved people.
7. They are not funny or funny
The sense of humor is usually one of the most valued qualities in interpersonal relationships. Who does not want to spend funny moments and laugh all day with friends or partner? Anti-attractive people do not usually have fun in company and rarely show their sense of humor, if they have one.